For quite a good number of times now, there has been an outpouring of
news of collapsed nollywood marriages, of which the latest is that of
Funke Akindele and Chika Ike. There are so many others that also
grAduated from being a couple to single hood.
What are the reasons bEhind all these mishaps? Nollywoodsecret.com
tries to think down the memory lane to see if it could be able to
decipher the root causes of all these problems.
First and foremost, we should not forget that some nollywood actors
and actresse do sleep with themselves at film sites. This was revealed
follOwing an interview with an insider in NOLLYWOOD who pledged
anonymous. She said that for the fact that both parties agreeD to do
it, there is nothing so special about that, adding that after all
other professionals in different fields do have s..x, and that of
NOLLYWOOD SHOULD NOT BE DIFFERENT.
This might be one of the reasons why most of all these marriages fail.
No man would ever want his wife to be a public toilet. Apart from
secret affairs at film sites, most husbands of all these actressES do
not feel comfortable at the films which their wives engage in, where
they share their wives with other men in the name of acting.
Secondly, some of these actressES would always try to exaggerate their
independence, considering the level of their riches and affluence.
Most of them travel out of the country at will giving one flimsy
excuse or the other, probably for a movie show. This most do at will
with or without the consent of their husbands. After all they need
little or no help from their husbands, they have what they need. As a
result of this, their husbands become less valued and uncared for.
From there, controversy ensues.
Very importantly, most NOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES fail because they lack
strong foundation and courtship. They were not built on love, but
lust. Some get married to their partners because they feel they are
good in bed due to one s..xual feature or the other, forgeting that
all that glitters is not gold!
And when they finally discover the real thing, their eyes open and
they begin to look outside wedlock for what they bargained for.
Some got into relationships that finally led to marriage due to
inordinate quest for money and fame. Recently, we got that P'square
proposed to her girl with a 2013 range rover classic. This sounds so
canal, and materialistic. Range rover is not love. I am not
criticising p'square, rather i am just citing an instance. If tomorrow
the car or the money is no longer there or not flowing as it suppose,
the love begins to depreciate and wane. Eventually, we hear they have
divorced.
Most importantly, UNFAITHFULNESS is the major factor in this case
study. Most If not all of them do flirt around even after wedlock. The
reason is simply because they cannot control it, that is what they are
used to. And if eventual one of the partners could not bear it,
divorce ensues.
SUMAMRILY: There are lots of reasons, why these marriages do not stand
a test of time. They are ill-baked, and lacked thoroughness in the
process of acquisition of marriage partners. May God have mercy on
NOLLYWOOD!
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news of collapsed nollywood marriages, of which the latest is that of
Funke Akindele and Chika Ike. There are so many others that also
grAduated from being a couple to single hood.
What are the reasons bEhind all these mishaps? Nollywoodsecret.com
tries to think down the memory lane to see if it could be able to
decipher the root causes of all these problems.
First and foremost, we should not forget that some nollywood actors
and actresse do sleep with themselves at film sites. This was revealed
follOwing an interview with an insider in NOLLYWOOD who pledged
anonymous. She said that for the fact that both parties agreeD to do
it, there is nothing so special about that, adding that after all
other professionals in different fields do have s..x, and that of
NOLLYWOOD SHOULD NOT BE DIFFERENT.
This might be one of the reasons why most of all these marriages fail.
No man would ever want his wife to be a public toilet. Apart from
secret affairs at film sites, most husbands of all these actressES do
not feel comfortable at the films which their wives engage in, where
they share their wives with other men in the name of acting.
Secondly, some of these actressES would always try to exaggerate their
independence, considering the level of their riches and affluence.
Most of them travel out of the country at will giving one flimsy
excuse or the other, probably for a movie show. This most do at will
with or without the consent of their husbands. After all they need
little or no help from their husbands, they have what they need. As a
result of this, their husbands become less valued and uncared for.
From there, controversy ensues.
Very importantly, most NOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES fail because they lack
strong foundation and courtship. They were not built on love, but
lust. Some get married to their partners because they feel they are
good in bed due to one s..xual feature or the other, forgeting that
all that glitters is not gold!
And when they finally discover the real thing, their eyes open and
they begin to look outside wedlock for what they bargained for.
Some got into relationships that finally led to marriage due to
inordinate quest for money and fame. Recently, we got that P'square
proposed to her girl with a 2013 range rover classic. This sounds so
canal, and materialistic. Range rover is not love. I am not
criticising p'square, rather i am just citing an instance. If tomorrow
the car or the money is no longer there or not flowing as it suppose,
the love begins to depreciate and wane. Eventually, we hear they have
divorced.
Most importantly, UNFAITHFULNESS is the major factor in this case
study. Most If not all of them do flirt around even after wedlock. The
reason is simply because they cannot control it, that is what they are
used to. And if eventual one of the partners could not bear it,
divorce ensues.
SUMAMRILY: There are lots of reasons, why these marriages do not stand
a test of time. They are ill-baked, and lacked thoroughness in the
process of acquisition of marriage partners. May God have mercy on
NOLLYWOOD!
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and comments. We can reach you, but cannot reach your friends. Please
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